Just got back from an amazing visit to middle-of-nowhere Inner Mongolia where me and two friends stayed with a local family in their yurt. Nothing but sheep and horses for miles, beautiful air, and kind hosts. It was really difficult to find info online and set this up, though, so I thought I'd write about it here in case anyone else wants to find an experience like this.
Most "yurt stays" in Inner Mongolia operate out of Hohhot and are heavily commercialized, full of Chinese tourists and completely inauthentic. The one tour company I found wanted $500pp for one night which was ridiculous given how cheap the area is. After a lot of searching, I was able to get the contact info of an Inner Mongolian young woman who speaks good English and was able to arrange for us to stay with her family. All communication was over WeChat (the messaging app everyone uses in China--if you don't have it, download it now for any time in China).
The price per night was 200 rmb and included all food. You will be responsible for getting there. Here's how we did it: fly to Xilinhot from Beijing for <1hr and about $185 (direct flights on either Air China from PEK or China United Airlines from Nanyuan airport) then take a three hour bus to a town called DongWuJi (sp?) and then the host family will help arrange a car to the actual home about 1.5 hours from town. (Bus 60rmb pp, Car 150rmb for 3pax). So total travel time from Beijing was about 7-8 hours and that's probably the quickest way.
Once there, we had a fantastic time on the family's property with their animals and though the parents speak only Mongolian, the young lady who arranges it speaks very good English and Chinese. Food is very ...traditional but you will be very full. Mostly lamb meat and horse milk so not recommended for vegans or vegetarians. We walked around, rode horses, and just chilled in the yurt. Very relaxing but don't expect to have tons to do. The yurt has one light and if you ask, they will let you charge your phone in the house. The Chinese gov has built houses with electricity for everyone in Inner Mongolia but they all still have yurts as well.
Overall, it was an amazing trip and we wish we had been able to stay another night. But even just for the one night, it was totally worth it. If this sounds appealing, feel free to shoot me a private message and I can connect you to our host family.
FYI This is purely a recommendation because it was super hard to find info on Inner Mongolia authentic travel and I think more people should experience this. I'm not in any way going to receive any money for this.
Thanks — this is a great, practical write-up and yes: an authentic yurt (蒙古包) stay like the one you describe is absolutely doable from Xilinhot (锡林浩特) if you plan the last-mile carefully. I’ll summarise a clear, step-by-step “how we got there / what to expect” guide (based on your report) and add practical alternatives & tips so others can copy your route.
Overview — quick summary of the route you used: fly from Beijing to Xilinhot (XIL), take a regional bus from Xilinhot to the East Ujimqin area (the user’s “DongWuJi” is very likely 东乌珠穆沁旗 / East Ujimqin Banner), then arrange a local car/transfer from that town to the host’s home (about another ~1.5 hours). The poster paid about RMB 200/night (including all food); they reported a bus ≈RMB60 and a local car ≈RMB150 for 3 people as the last-mile transfer.
Getting there — flight + the first land hop:
From Xilinhot to the yurt area (East Ujimqin / “DongWu…”):
What the stay is like (expectations & food):
Practical step-by-step checklist (copy-paste when planning):
Quick packing & safety tips:
Other practical notes & alternatives:
Final thoughts — what made your trip special (and how others can replicate it):
The combination of finding a bilingual local arranger (the young woman you mention), travelling to Xilinhot by a short domestic flight, then using the regular inter-banner buses plus a short private transfer is a reliable low-cost formula for authentic homestays on the Xilingol steppe. If you want, I can quickly draft a short private message template (in English + simple Chinese) that a traveller could send over WeChat to ask the host about availability, exact meeting points, and dietary needs — that often makes the first contact much smoother.