To Maui With Love

Question

My husband and I hesitated to travel to Maui , concerned it still wasn’t an appropriate time. We heard conflicting points of view- tourists aren’t wanted vs come, but practice the Aloha Spirit. We chose the latter and here we are!

I want to describe our feelings as we travelled from our beautiful stay on the East Side of Maui to the Ka’anapali area. As we approached the Lahaina area , we both became silent. Signs of the tragedy became evident- the smell, the burned buildings, the numerous activity of construction and demolition crews. There was a lump in my throat and my heart was heavy with sadness for those lost. I could imagine what was once a vibrant, colorful community full of laughter, only to be silenced in a tragic moment of time. As we traveled through Lahaina, there in the distance appeared the row of tall , opulent accommodations of Ka’anapali and my sadness turned to embarrassment. Is this practicing the Aloha Spirit?

As we checked into our hotel there were 4-5 bell boys to assist with our luggage, they were quite fun, then a young woman greeted me and assisted with our accommodations. We chatted a bit and told me she has two children that keep her busy in her off time. There were quite a few folks scurrying around to help make our stay smooth and enjoyable. It became clear that, while a contrast to the tragedy this Island has experienced, these beautiful buildings offer many residents a lifeline. We choose to support local businesses , as best we can. Our purchases of local honey, jams, coffee , Poki , fresh fish, and especially the mango malasadas hopefully help in a little way.

A special shout out to the first responders, as well as all the people of the community keeping the Aloha Spirit alive in spite of tragedy and loss. Maui Strong , indeed.

Donna

Answer

Thank you for sharing such a heartfelt reflection on your trip to Maui. Traveling to areas affected by tragedy can evoke a wide range of emotions, and your account captures the complexity of visiting a place that is both grieving and resilient.

Your experience traveling from the East Side of Maui to the Ka’anapali area highlights the stark contrast between the devastation in Lahaina and the relative calm and prosperity of Ka’anapali. It’s natural to feel a mix of sadness, empathy, and even guilt when witnessing such contrasts, but practicing the Aloha Spirit doesn’t mean ignoring the hardship. It can mean acknowledging the tragedy while also supporting the community in ways that are meaningful and respectful.

By choosing to patronize local businesses, purchasing items such as honey, jams, coffee, poke, fresh fish, and mango malasadas, you are contributing to the local economy and helping sustain livelihoods. This is a practical and positive way to show support while still honoring the people and the spirit of the island.

Support local shops, restaurants, and markets to directly benefit residents.
Respect the areas impacted by tragedy by being mindful of what you share publicly and observing local guidelines or memorial spaces.
Engage with the community in meaningful ways, such as asking about volunteer opportunities or local initiatives helping with recovery.

Recognizing the tireless work of first responders, construction crews, and residents keeping the Aloha Spirit alive is also an important part of visiting. Your acknowledgment and gratitude help honor their dedication and sacrifice.

Express appreciation to hospitality staff and first responders for their efforts.
Consider small acts of kindness to locals, such as leaving positive reviews or tipping generously where possible.
Participate in cultural or community events that support the rebuilding efforts, if available and appropriate.

Your reflection also shows the balance of experiencing the beauty and luxury of Maui’s resorts while staying conscious of the broader situation on the island. Practicing the Aloha Spirit is not about guilt or avoidance, but about empathy, mindfulness, and support for the people and culture that make Maui special. By being present, respectful, and intentional with your choices, you contribute to the healing and resilience of the community.

Donna, your message of gratitude and thoughtful reflection serves as an example of responsible and compassionate travel. Maui Strong indeed.