Girls trip

Two middle aged women planning a fun and relaxing few days at Disney. What’s your preferred resort for our downtime?

For a girls’ trip focused on relaxation, fun, good drinks, pretty pools, and easy access to parks when you *want* them (but not feeling rushed), Disney has several standout resorts. Middle-aged women often gravitate toward places with a peaceful atmosphere, great lounges, beautiful grounds, and comfortable rooms — without being overrun by kids’ energy 24/7.

Below are the best options depending on what kind of downtime vibe you’re looking for.

Top 3 overall “girls’ trip + relaxation” Disney resorts:

  • Disney’s Grand Floridian Resort & Spa – elegant, calm, spa-like atmosphere
  • Disney’s Polynesian Village Resort – tropical, relaxing, with great lounges & food
  • Disney’s Riviera Resort – sophisticated, quiet, with easy Skyliner access

1. Disney’s Grand Floridian Resort & Spa

If you want that pampered, peaceful resort vibe for downtime, this is Disney’s most classic choice. It’s bright, calm, and beautifully landscaped with plenty of quiet corners and a spa feel.

  • Fantastic for morning coffee on the balconies or by the lake
  • Multiple lounges and restaurants perfect for girls’ nights: Enchanted Rose, Citricos, etc.
  • Easy Monorail access to Magic Kingdom & EPCOT
  • Quiet pools and a calmer crowd overall

2. Disney’s Polynesian Village Resort

If you want a more fun, tropical, laid-back vibe (with amazing cocktails), this is one of the best picks for a girls’ getaway. The ambience is relaxing without being stuffy.

  • Great lounges: Trader Sam’s, Tambu Lounge, beach bar
  • Beautiful sandy beach areas perfect for relaxing in the evening
  • Excellent dining: Kona Café, ‘Ohana, Dole Whip on site
  • Monorail convenience & easy boat ride to Magic Kingdom

3. Disney’s Riviera Resort

This is Disney’s most modern, stylish resort — calm, sophisticated, and perfect if you want beautiful rooms and a resort designed for adults as much as families.

  • Calm, upscale feel with European inspiration
  • Topolino’s Terrace for a gorgeous dinner or drinks
  • Skyliner access to EPCOT and Hollywood Studios
  • Quiet, comfortable pool areas

Other great options depending on your style:

  • Yacht Club: Best pool on property (Stormalong Bay), great for relaxing afternoons, easy walk to EPCOT.
  • Animal Kingdom Lodge: Exceptionally peaceful with beautiful viewing areas, wine bar, and unique dining — feels like a true getaway from the parks.
  • Port Orleans French Quarter (Moderate option): Smaller, charming, walkable, and quiet — great for a relaxed girls’ trip without the deluxe price.

Summary: What’s best for two middle-aged women wanting comfort + fun + relaxation?

If you want elegance and tranquility → Grand Floridian.

If you want tropical vibes and fun drinks → Polynesian.

If you want modern calm and easy transportation → Riviera Resort.

You can’t go wrong with any of these, but the Polynesian and the Grand Floridian tend to be the top favorites for adult women’s trips because they mix relaxing downtime with excellent dining and lounge options.


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